Im tired, I have a cracking headache and no motivation. I cant concentrate on anything. When I left this morning stu was in bed because he hadnt been paid and i had to give him money for the bus again. I hope he is ok. I hope he got to work ok and didnt fall asleep. time is going very slowly. i want to go home and cuddle up on the sofa. I have to go to my cousins after work to pick up some black trousers for stu to borrow for this wedding do tomorrow. I have been asked to go out tonight. all my friends are going to town because they are all off to uni soon, but i really cant be arsed being sociable, at the same time it might be the last time i see some of them. Its gloomy outside and its starting to get cold. my headache has spread to the backs of my eyes. No matter how good things are going I always find something to worry about. I hope stu doesnt change his mind about me. Im madly in love but scared to loose what i have, so sometimes i get sad rather than enjoying it. I can see what im doing wrong but can never quite fix it. i always find a way of screwing things up. Things seem to be going ok, so im waiting in anticipation for the next thing to go wrong, just because i cant beleive that good things can just happen to me like this. im completely neurotic. sometimes i just want the reassurance. i desperately want everything to work out, which is sometimes why it goes wrong. Everything seems ok when Im in his arms. Sometimes I wish i could just float away, staying in his arms forever. I hate that everything revolves around money. But I think love can solve a lot of things, most things, everything.
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- 2009-09-17 @ 11:59:50
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- 2009-09-17 @ 13:04:14
Everything will be ok angel, he loves you, everything is fine.

The thing about something precious (even love) is that we long for it, get over joyed when we get it, then start fretting about losing it.
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- 2009-09-17 @ 13:53:31
I think part of the problem is that maybe you need to accept that shitty days are normal and part of the mix in a 'happy' life.
Finding the life partner isn't a happy ending - it's a major foundation stone for a full and interesting life which will have bad and sometimes even terrible times.
Partners are there to help us through those times and we are there to help them through - not wave a magic wand and make the bad stuff go away - but make us stronger so we can cope and develop and learn as we share experiences together.
Build a team that will endure - and you will find peace of mind. -
- 2009-09-17 @ 15:51:04
Not having money can put a damper on everything.
But your anxiety about your pressesnt happiness is likely to have its origins in stuff that happened really early on in your life, rather than weaknesses now in your relationship with Stu, which sounds terrific. I have a strong feeling you will be fine. xxxx -
- 2009-09-17 @ 21:56:37
my other half was in a grump [like this] a few weeks ago
he is now not so gumpy
just oh so lovely
have a chat to him
[im sure he wouldnt mind]
he is on my friends list

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- 2009-09-18 @ 08:23:10
Don't create problems out of thin air, he loves you. It is natural to wonder about where it is gonna go, but you are engaged, remember this man wants to spend the rest of his life with you - he aint going anywhere x
SeasideMan
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Money is important, but love is crucial.